We’ve been hearing things like, “No one will ever be good enough for my daughter,” or “Maybe I’ll be polishing my gun collection when Tommy comes to pick you up,” forever.
And I realize when a father “threatens” a gentleman caller or decides to wear a tank top and puff out his chest in front of all the young men to scare them away from his little girl, it’s supposed to be a little bit of a joke. None of us want to see our kids get hurt or taken advantage of.
How can we raise strong, independent females with this attitude? We need to give the young men of the world more credit and wait and see if they actually are going to act like a dirt bag bag before we try and scare them off.But female members of his flock at Richmond Farm in Kwa Zulu-Natal, claim that after preaching, Pastor Mxolisi “Striker” Shange, 33, changes into Casanova.This comes after 10 young girls from the church alleged the Tower of Faith Ministry International pastor has been having secret love affairs with them.This wasn't a simple conversation mind you, it was an interview. This is a young man we know, from a good family, who has a real heart for the things of God, but still, this is our little girl that he will be spending an evening with. I so appreciate the fact that any young man who wants to spend time with father.No, he was not conducting an interview for a job ... Yes, it's an event at her school and fully chaperoned, but that letting go thing is so, so . These young men will be called up by him to a higher standard and held accountable.